· Recognize your innermost spiritual being · Acknowledge and accept your life task · Realign and find new direction using a methodical expansion of family constellation work The woman next to me pulled a serious face and her voice sounded determined: "I want to finally be an adult." "You can't," I said. "It's absolutely impossible! Imagine a rabbit that comes up to you, looks you in the eyes and says in an earnest voice: I want to be a rabbit!" Though seemingly an adult, we often behave like children and, especially in important and emotionally charged situations, are unable to act in an adult fashion. With the Life Integration Process (LIP) Wilfried Nelles introduces a new approach that helps us to see and feel the inner sense of ourselves and the inner vision of our lives. We carry in us this vision - often forgotten in the daily course of our lives - from the very beginning. Through the LIP, we can connect with our inner being and vision and the pains of our life can recede to the background. Then we can accept life the way it is and embrace it.