Why do some people inspire trust and compassion, while others trigger fear and resentment? The answer might lie in two simple words: FOR and TO. Drawing from over 90 years of life experience and decades of leadership coaching, Mace Vaughan offers a powerful lens for understanding human behavior, relationships, and social responsibility. Through honest stories, sharp insights, and real-world observations, this book explores how the way we treat one another shapes families, workplaces, politics, and even entire nations. Whether you're a CEO, a teacher, a parent, or simply someone trying to do better in life, you'll find wisdom in Vaughan's call to embrace FOR behavior; treatment rooted in respect, dignity, and inclusion. Part memoir, part social commentary, and part moral guide, FOR vs. TO invites readers to reflect on how their actions affect others and challenges them to be the kind of person who uplifts rather than injures. It's a heartfelt, urgent message for anyone who believes that kindness isn't weakness, and that better treatment can build a better world.